Diffrent lives (parents

My parents have always been saying that i have to feel happy because they couldnt
take any supports from their parents. My father grew up in utter property, so he fully realized
the value of money. Unlike my father, my mother grew up in wealthy family, so she got so many
supports from her parents. Due to their different environments, they argued sometimes because
my father don't want to make my life easy and my mother wants to support me and my sister like she've got from her parents. My father just worried about that i might forget the value of the money that they worked very hard to earn. However, my mother wants give everything us more than she took from her parents. Me and my sister understand our parents because they grew up in diffrent environments so their thinking can be also different.
Honestly, when i was young, i used to waste much money on unneccassary things like shopping, drinking. But now, as i growing up, i'm becoming to understand and repect them.